in my dream, a good friend of mine asked me to be his girlfriend and i accepted even though i didn't like him. i don't like him in that way in real life either. after a few days, he proposed to me and i still said yes, i don't know why. then we went to lunch with his parents and his mom said "i hope it's not in vain" because she was paying for the wedding. then me and my "fiance" and some other adult were going to my house and we met my childhood friend's father. we chit chatted abd i told him that guy was my fiance. he said he wants to help us with money, a house but i refused politely. i gathered everyone and i confessed i actually didn't like him and i thought that because we were good friends i could marry him but i really couldn't. he was very mad at me and left and i woke up
Dreams are often symbolic representations of our subconscious thoughts, feelings, and desires. In this dream, it appears that your subconscious is exploring themes related to relationships, personal boundaries, and honesty.
Your friend asking you to be his girlfriend and proposing could symbolize a desire for a deeper connection or commitment in your waking life. However, the fact that you do not like him in that way suggests that there may be aspects of this friendship that you are unsure about or uncomfortable with.
The lunch with his parents and his mother's comment about hoping it's not in vain may suggest concerns about external expectations or pressures in relationships. This could symbolize a fear of disappointing others or feeling obligated to fulfill certain societal norms or expectations, even if they do not align with your true feelings or desires.
Meeting your childhood friend's father and his offer to help with money and a house may represent external influences or assistance that you are hesitant to accept. It could symbolize a desire for support or stability in your life, but a reluctance to rely on others for help.
Your confession that you do not actually like your "fiance" and the ensuing anger and departure may parallel feelings of guilt or conflict about being true to yourself in relationships. It could suggest a fear of hurting others or a struggle with asserting your own needs and emotions.
Overall, this dream may be reflecting inner conflicts and uncertainties about relationships, authenticity, and personal boundaries. It could be a reminder to listen to your own inner voice, be honest with yourself and others, and set boundaries that respect your feelings and values.